{"id":499,"date":"2013-07-24T01:15:46","date_gmt":"2013-07-24T01:15:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/?p=499"},"modified":"2013-07-24T01:48:52","modified_gmt":"2013-07-24T01:48:52","slug":"499","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/?p=499","title":{"rendered":"Emile Griffith&#8217;s death brings saddness to me for Griffith and for the man he killed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-315\" alt=\"Terry Mosher 3\" src=\"http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"592\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3.jpg 600w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3-300x296.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3-135x133.jpg 135w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3-85x83.jpg 85w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3-280x276.jpg 280w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3-576x568.jpg 576w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3-145x143.jpg 145w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Terry-Mosher-3-566x558.jpg 566w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Wow, if you live long enough you see a lot of good people die. Today it was Emile Griffith, who I idolized as a young kid watching him fight on national TV. I shouldn\u2019t say young kid, because I was nearly as old as Emile.<\/p>\n<p>Griffith was 75 when he died in Hempstead, N.Y., but had been sick for a long time. He had taken too many punches and suffered from dementia. Despite early signs of dementia, Griffith for years attended public events, including the International Boxing Hall of Fame inductions in Canastota, N.Y, and he was always gracious and willing to mix with boxing fans.<\/p>\n<p>I have been a big boxing fan since I was about five and covered many fights for the Bremerton Sun, including a slew of Boone \u201cBoom Boom\u201d Kirkman\u2019s many fights in the Seattle area.<\/p>\n<p>There are certain boxers who I really liked, including most of the great heavyweights, guys like Joe Louis, Rocky Marciano (although he may have been one of the dirtiest heavyweights of all time), Jack Johnson, Jack Dempsey, and George Foreman. The great middleweight champion Sugar Ray Robinson, Henry Armstrong and Willie Pep were amazing boxers.\u00a0 I also grew to like Marvelous Marvin Hagler.<\/p>\n<p>At one time a boxing board game was on the market that was unbelievably good. Our oldest son, Toby, and I used to play it for hours at a time, often going into the wee hours of morning. It was very realistic and later I would make up heavyweight boxing tournaments, often throwing in a few light heavyweights and one or two middleweights just to see what would happen.<\/p>\n<p>But the real deal was best, and for me one of the best was Emile Griffith. There was something about him that attracted me. I think it was his guile, his speed of hand and feet, and his graceful movement. Griffith didn\u2019t have true knockout power, but he took punches and gave back even more, and his ability to outthink opponents was impressive.<\/p>\n<p>The fight that is stamped into my memory bank is the welterweight title bout held March 24, 1962. It was a highly anticipated third-fight between two guys who didn\u2019t like each other \u2013 Benny \u201cKid\u201d Paret and Griffith.<\/p>\n<p>Paret was a cocky sort and during the weigh-in before the fight had apparently called Griffith a gay name. This was during a time when being gay, or just being thought of as being gay, was reason enough to be demeaned and rejected in our society.<\/p>\n<p>Emile was a puzzle because he would say at different times he was gay, or bisexual or straight. Whatever he was, Paret seized upon the gay part and verbally hammered away at Griffith.<\/p>\n<p>A second part of this story is Paret fought three tough fights in the previous 11 months. Paret had three months prior gone 10 brutal rounds with middleweight champion Gene Fullmer, another fighter who I really liked. Fullmer was tough as nails and Paret took a pretty bad beating before being knocked out in the 10<sup>th<\/sup> round.<\/p>\n<p>In the fight before that, he had won a split decision over Griffith to take back the welterweight crown. Five months before that, Griffith had knocked out Paret in the 13<sup>th<\/sup> round to retain his welterweight crown.<\/p>\n<p>So the stage was set for an incredible fight. I couldn\u2019t wait to watch it. And for 11 rounds I thought Paret was winning, although the official scorecards later would reveal Griffith to be well ahead, even though he had taken an eight-count in round six.<\/p>\n<p>I again favored Paret though most of the 12<sup>th<\/sup> round. Then, suddenly, about mid-way through the round, Griffith hurt Paret, who backed into a corner. Emile pounced and started throwing punches I didn\u2019t know he had.<\/p>\n<p>Paret was badly hurt, but still on his feet. But he was completely defenseless as Griffith pounded away.\u00a0 Somebody later estimated Griffith threw close t0 30 punches in just seconds before veteran referee Ruby Goldstein stepped into stop it.<\/p>\n<p>The bad thing for me is when Griffith initially hurt Paret I was so confident Emile was behind and wanting him to win so badly that I jumped to my feet and started yelling at the TV screen.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKill him, kill him, kill him,\u201d I screamed.<\/p>\n<p>So Emile did.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-500\" alt=\"Emile Griffith=Benny Kid Paret\" src=\"http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-1024x819.jpg\" width=\"1024\" height=\"819\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-1024x819.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-300x240.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-135x108.jpg 135w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-85x68.jpg 85w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-280x224.jpg 280w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-576x460.jpg 576w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-145x116.jpg 145w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret-566x452.jpg 566w, http:\/\/www.sportspaper.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Emile-GriffithBenny-Kid-Paret.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>CHARLES HOFF PHOTO<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Paret fell into a coma and never came out of it. Ten days later he died.<\/p>\n<p>I still feel ashamed and guilty about it. And it\u2019s 52 years later.<\/p>\n<p>Goldstein, who was a great boxing referee, could not find work after that. They blamed him for not stopping the bout earlier.<\/p>\n<p>Paret\u2019s death also caused NBC, which had been televising fights, to cease showing boxing matches for a few years.<\/p>\n<p>The Paret-Griffith fight can be viewed in part on YouTube. It\u2019s not pretty.<\/p>\n<p>Griffith would go on to fight more, but he was never the same boxer. He grew afraid of hurting somebody. He finally retired in 1977 with an 85-24-2 record and began training fighters.<\/p>\n<p>Now he\u2019s gone. I feel sad, sad for his death and sad for the memory of the Paret fight that springs forward in my mind with his death.<\/p>\n<p>Boxing has now taken a backseat in recent years to MMA, which is even more brutal than boxing with gloves. Someday I expect a death in an octagon, even though referees seem to step in pretty quickly when they realize a fighter is in trouble. But you can\u2019t fight like they do in the octagon and not expect something bad to eventually happen.<\/p>\n<p>I do hope I\u2019m wrong. I seen one death too many already.<\/p>\n<p>Be well pal.<\/p>\n<p>Be careful out there.<\/p>\n<p>Have a great day.<\/p>\n<p>You are loved.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, if you live long enough you see a lot of good people die. 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